YouTube Divorcee Loses in Court

The verdict is in - it is no shock that the Youtube videos of Tricia Walsh-Smith back fired.

I previously wrote about how Mrs. Walsh-Smith lashed out against her husband Philip J. Smith in the her now famous YouTube video.   In the video, Ms. Walsh-Smith discusses, her marriage, the unfairness of her pre-nup, her marital sex life and more.   At one point in the video, she even  called her husband’s office and spoke to his assistant about his stash of Viagra and porn.

In my post, I predicted that this attempt to humiliate her husband would not be helpful to her case.

I hate to say I told you so, but my pointed criticism of Ms. Walsh-Smith was predictive of the court’s decision.

In granting a divorce to her husband Philip J. Smith on the grounds of cruel and inhuman treatment, Justice Harold B. Beeler found that Tricia Walsh-Smith's "exposure" of his private life caused him "enormous mental distress.”

As the New York Post put it:


Beeler blasted Walsh-Smith for her video stunt, which he called "a calculated and callous campaign to embarrass and humiliate her husband" and to pressure him into settling the case on more favorable terms than were stated in their prenuptial agreement.


The New York Law Journal quoted the decision:

 Given Ms. Walsh-Smith's YouTube postings and "her exploitation thereof in the media circus" that ensued, "there is no doubt that her conduct, taken in its totality, has now so endangered the plaintiff's physical or mental well-being as to render it unsafe or improper for him to cohabit with the defendant


The Judge found that the prenuptial agreement, signed three weeks before the couple's 1999 wedding, was valid. Walsh-Smith must now leave their Park Avenue apartment within 30 days. 

Now, the only question is will Walsh-Smith make a follow-up video about how the judge or her attorney wronged her.   

Details of Divorce in You Tube Video

Discretion, being the better part of valor, it is seldom a good idea for a party to a divorce, to publicize the gory details of their case. But one ill-advised wife went even further;   she made  a You Tube video so she could air her dirty laundry.



In her video, Tricia Walsh Smith discuss her sex life (or absence of) with her husband, her husband’s stash of porn, condoms and Viagra, her relationship with her step-children and the terms of her pre-nuptial agreement.

As pointed out in the Legal Blog Watch:

A number of divorce lawyers interviewed for an Associated Press story criticized Walsh-Smith's tactics.  Attorney Bonnie Rabin commented that You Tube videos "bring the concept of humiliation to a whole new level."   Moreover, videos can ultimately hurt litigants -- a judge might question a party's judgment in posting a video and hold it against him in ruling on the case.  And there's always the possibility of a defamation action if the video rants include intentionally false information.

Walsh-Smith is now represented by famed divorce attorney Raoul Felder -- though she wasn't his client when she made the video.  Felder told AP that he thought his client "comes off well."  However, the majority of commenters on the video disagree; many labeled Walsh-Smith a "gold digger," with one even comparing her to another Brit involved in a contentious divorce: Heather Mills.

This video is simply an awful idea. It should not be emulated.   Despite Ms. Walsh’s attempt to portray herself has a naïve spouse, rejected by her husband, she comes across as shrew, mean and vindictive. 

The video is intended only to embarrass and humiliate her husband. It can also be viewed as a not so veiled threat as to what may follow if her husband does not capitulate to her demands.   Either way this type of conduct is reprehensible.

If this type of public broadcast of martial differences ever caught on, I would expect it to be negatively considered in decisions awarding equitable distribution, maintenance and, most certainly, child custody.