Home Downpayments: Gift or Loan When Family Money Is Involved

 

I read an interesting article in Sunday’s Times about how the credit crunch has resulted in more people borrowing money from their friends and families in order to purchase a home.   There is really nothing new about this phenomenon.   Parents have long gifted or loaned their children money for a home down-payment. 

 

There is also nothing new about the myriad of problems that arise when the parties divorce.  Since the down payment generally represents a significant portion of the marital assets, all involved, husband, wife and their parents, may claim the down payment to be theirs. 

 

The threshold question is –was the “advance” from the parents a gift or a loan?  If it was a gift, was it a gift to one or both of the parties?  

 

One of the parties may claim that the “advance” from his/her parents was a loan, which must be repaid when the marital home is sold.   In such case, inquiry must be made as to whether there was there a note or a mortgage?   Was there any documentation or acknowledgment of the loan?  Were there any loan payments made during the marriage? Was interest on the loan declared as income?     

 

In the absence of a writing or loan re-payments it may be hard to prove that the advance was a loan.   The fall back position is generally that the advance was a gift  to only one of the parties.  Assuming that the gift was made by check, the face of check should be determinative-(i.e., a check to Mr. and Mrs. Jones is a gift to both parties but a check to Mrs. Jones may be a gift to only the Wife).   

 

 Many lenders require a “gift letter” confirming that the down payment was a gift, not a loan.  This letter certainly may of value in determining purpose of the advance.  Likewise, did the gift trigger the filing of a gift tax return?   

 

In order to avoid future disputes, when the home purchase is made, there should be a writing, signed by all involved, clearly defining the terms of the transaction, identifying it as a loan or a gift, and, if it is a loan, setting forth the payment terms. 

Marital Home Sales: When the Mortgages and Debts Exceed the Selling Price

As part of a divorce, the marital home is generally sold. But, in view of the slow down in the home sales market, it is possible that the proceeds from the sale of a home may be insufficient to fully pay off the mortgages on the property.

In a prior post, I explored the option of retaining possession of the martial home to avoid selling at a loss. For some, this is simply not an option and the home must be sold. Most couples cannot or simply do not want to continue living together after a divorce. Many cannot afford to maintain the marital home on their own.

The New Jersey Law Blog offers great insight in dealing with the situation  when the sales price martial home is insufficient to satisfy the mortgage.

If the homeowner is unable to obtain a sales price which enables him to pay off all loans and closing costs, and he does not have the funds to make up the difference, then he may want to try to obtain approval from his current lender(s) to accept an amount less than the full amount due on its mortgage. For a lender, this may be acceptable to obtain repayment of a substantial amount of its loan and to avoid the costs and delay of foreclosing on the loan. This will generally mean that the Seller will not receive any funds from the sale of his home.

In order to obtain such approval from a lender - which may or may not be granted - the homeowner needs to contact his lender(s) to determine what information they will need to make their decision. This usually includes a financial statement of the homeowner, copy of a contract of sale, appraisal, and other pertinent documents. Generally, a lender will not consider approving a short sale without a clear economic hardship on the part of the homeowner and an existing default or pending foreclosure.

Until recently, forgiveness of a debt under these circumstances, could trigger a taxable event according to the IRS. This means that if a lender forgave a part of the mortgage debt by accepting a reduced amount in full satisfaction of the loan, then the amount forgiven could be deemed taxable income to the homeowner. This was so even though the homeowner received nothing from the sale. However, in December 2007 Congress passed the Mortgage Forgiveness Debt Relief Act of 2007. This Act amends the Internal Revenue Code to exclude from gross income amounts attributed to a discharge of indebtedness incurred to acquire a homeowner’s principle residence. The amount of the debt forgiveness can be up to $2.0 million. Thus, a homeowner is now able to sell his home for less than what is owed on it without incurring an additional tax liability. This exemption for forgiven debt, however, is only temporary and expires within three years.

How to Prevent Divorce From Hurting Your Credit

Your credit rating could be hurt by divorce. As part of divorce, you distribute not only your assets, but your debts and obligations as well.

An in-artfully drawn marital agreement may provide that one spouse will assume the liability for a joint debt. However, an agreement apportioning joint liability between you and your spouse is not binding on the creditor. The creditor can attempt to collect the debt from either or both parties. As pointed out in a Fox Business article, “The mistaken assumption that you're off the hook for financial obligations can result in a series of missed payments that may trash your credit score for years.”

A well written agreement would provide that the debt is fully paid or transferred into the name of the spouse who is going to be responsible for paying it.

The Fox article does provide some useful information about protecting your credit rating:.

Begin by converting your credit card accounts. People most often miss payments on this type of debt, rather than the loans that keep a roof over their head and wheels under their feet.

Next, work on refinancing your mortgage and your car loan. Granted, this is going to be more difficult, because the bank will want just one person to accept the loan in his or her name -- which may not be possible if that person's salary isn't enough to qualify for the loan. In cases like these, it might be easier to sell the car or the house, split the money and move on. That way, you're guaranteed not to have credit damages caused by a vengeful ex-spouse.

"Remember that when you're getting divorced from your spouse, you're also divorcing yourself from emotional attachment to assets," Ulzheimer said.
You would also be wise to opt out of receiving pre-screened offers for credit or insurance. A spiteful ex-wife or ex-husband may be tempted to apply for a loan in your name just to ruin your credit. Go to the consumer credit reporting industry's official Web site for details. Visit the Web site.

Finally, start planning for all this at least six months to a year before you file, or as early as possible before the divorce gets ugly. Once any problems begin, you and your embittered other half will have a hard time thinking logically. If this seems like a lot of work at the front end of your separation, remember that it will save you up to 10 years of credit-related headaches in the aftermath