Mother Jailed for Alienating Daughters from Dad
In a highly unusual move, a judge ordered a mother jailed for interfering with husband’s visitation with his children.
In Lauren R. v Ted R. Justice Robert Ross ordered to the mother to report to jail for repeatedly violating the terms of the court orders regarding the father’s parenting time. The mother’s imprisonment coincides with the father’s scheduled visitation with the children.
The Court’s opinion details instance after instance of the mothers deliberate and willful attempts to alienate the children from the father, including false reports of child abuse, bad-mouthing the father in the presence of the children, and deliberately scheduling theater tickets, family events and social activities for the girls during the father’s visitation.
The New York Post reported that as a result of the mother’s efforts the children now hate their father. "They tell me I'm strictly their biological father," Ted Rubin, the father said, "and their stepfather is their real father."
In the past, courts have ordered a change of custody when one parent interferes with the other’s parental rights. In this case, the mother apparently succeeded in destroying the father- daughter relationship. In doing so the mother violated repeated court orders regarding visitation. The mother has to be penalized in a way that she is forced to learn that Court orders have teeth and can be enforced. Jail time for her contempt of court may be the only punishment she understands.
On the other hand, the mother’s imprisonment is not going to endear the father to his daughters. It seems inevitable that the girls will continue to blame the father for putting the mother in jail.

View My LinkedIn Profile
Follow me on Twitter
Married in NY Fan Page
Comments (5)
Read through and enter the discussion by using the form at the endhano - June 13, 2010 7:07 AM
Justice is served.
Nico Frazier - June 15, 2010 10:59 AM
Hi i wouldlike to say thats the way the court in michigan should be. i am now going through the same thing. i am divorced now and my son dont like me because of her an i would like to add . yes Justice was served..
Dan Clement - July 14, 2010 10:34 PM
Thanks for your comments. Good luck in your case
lkluna - September 11, 2010 10:23 PM
I don't believe the girls will inevitably blame the father for their mother's jail time. My son is going through the same thing, and I just betcha his EX won't be thrown in jail, even though she's violated his visitation! Those girls will not be children forever and one day they'll figure out what their mother has done to violate their father's rights.
lkluna - September 12, 2010 4:15 PM
My son is going through the same experience with his children and their mother. But, I don't agree at all that the girls will inevitably blame their father for putting their mother in jail. She broke the law; as the children get older they will understand that justice needed to be served.